Them.

I am sorry you are sick.
I am sorry you had an operation.

But,
I am not sorry I didn’t phone.

Why should I make the effort?
You never phone me when I am sick.
You didn’t call when I was in an accident.
In as long as I can remember you haven’t contact me for a birthday, a christmas, a graduation, a just-because.

I decided a long time ago I didn’t want to play in these stupid games.
Old enough to make the decision.

And as much as it may hurt you,
I don’t want anything to do with it.
At all.

But I doubt it would hurt.
I doubt you even know who I am.

You obviously have never cared about me,
So why should I, about you?